What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:41
If yes, what?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
Isn't it a turn on to have sex with a girl in a skirt or in a tight spandex?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
How are Hinduism and Sikhism related, considering they both originated in Punjab, India?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
How can one learn to talk frankly?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
How did my ex move on very fast?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
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Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
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35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Family Relation Age Play
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
39~ What are your love languages?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
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12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
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46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
What is your favorite position? Why?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Nothing too Serious
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Would you read them together?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
The Ice Breaker Questions
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
29- How superstitious are you?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Please share Did you stop?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
52~ What are your hobbies?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Any that are a turn off?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
*** Random Questions ***
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
How old are you? Male or Female?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Any that are a turn off?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?